Mr. Kirkpatrick: In memory.
A year ago this Saturday, Mr. Kirkpatrick died
after a battle with cancer. As many of us reflect on his impact on our lives, I
offer to you the text of his Graduation Speech to the Class of 2002.
Read it and be inspired.
Commencement Speech, June 2,
2002
Mr. Steve
Kirkpatrick
Public speaking and
its relationship to fear is an interesting phenomenon. If I were to ask you what
the following people have in common--Albert Berkley, Barbara Helleen, and Arthur
MacArthur--you would be hard pressed. The simple answer is that they are the
only people who have died while delivering a speech. So, I feel relatively sure
I will walk away from your
commencement.
I would also like
to point out that if Mr. Staley or Mr. Dyer or Dr. Nelson had to lead a mule
across this stage, they probably would have little trouble because the mule is
calm, sedate, and not easily excited. On the other hand, if they were asked to
lead a thoroughbred across the stage, they would probably have difficulty
because they are known to be nervous, skittish, and all together difficult to
handle. I want you all to know I am perfectly calm-not the least
nervous.
Now that my state of
mind has been established, I would like to thank the entire Concord community,
the students, the parents, and the staff for their prayers, their hugs, and
their constant concern. You have lifted me and stood by me. You have shown me
the kindness that dwells in all of us. Thank you so
much.
At the beginning of the
90's, I was excited about the prospects of the future. I felt education and
rapid change would play a major role in our lives and that is what I would like
to discuss with you today.
The
aim of the teacher is to prepare his students to do without him: to see life
through their own eyes, to hear the day with their own ears, and to understand
with their own minds. The good teacher recognizes the differences in his
students, will seize the teachable moment and cause it to evolve. The good
teacher places roadblocks in front of his children and encourages them to
overcome.
Here it is important
to point out that the state and national governments have mandated that language
and math skills need to be improved and that tests are to be the measure of our
success--the success of our children, their teachers, their
schools.
I agree that academic
skills are important. Our children need to read better, write better, and do
math better. However, we are leveling downward and praising that as common
sense. We educators spend a lot of time discussing rubrics, aligning the
curriculum, and assessing student academic skills with the single goal of
raising test scores for that is how our success is to be measured by our state
and national government. As a result, I have seen hard working teachers and
students labeled failures in much the same way that a business labels parts
defective.
Our children are not
flawed or inadequate. The focus has moved from the child to the subject matter
because that is what is to be tested. Students and their schools work hard and
for the most part do an excellent job. What is needed from Washington and
Indianapolis is a change in the paradigm that student, teacher, and school
success is best determined by a paper and pencil exercise. We need a new mandate
that emphasizes the building blocks of our society: compassion, sacrifice,
integrity, and justice. This is how the success of our society will be measured
by future generations.
Many of
the thoughts that I tend to dwell on and can't shake revolve around change.
Whether thinking about the fall and the leaves turning from green to red or a
young child and her desire to be a paleontologist or astronaut, of one thing I
am sure, change has a heart and soul of its own and yet it is part of every
fiber of our being. It is powered by Aristotle, Newton, and Edison. It gains
energy from our grandmothers and grandfathers as they are reflected in our
hearts and smiles and
laughter.
Sometimes as I think
about change and my classroom, I ask my students to fill in the blank to this
sentence, "I remember a time when there was no such thing as
__________________.
When I fill
in the blank, I say television. My students say,"computers," and I imagine you
parents might say calculators. If my wife's father were to have answered this
question, he could have said automobiles or airplanes, almost everything that is
a part of the twentieth century. Change is not happening at a leisurely pace. It
has become a stampede and as a result significant problems have occurred. Drug
abuse, alcoholism, stress related illnesses, and in many cases the idea that
bigger and quicker is better, and that hard work is not needed, and worst of all
that morality is relative. I don't mean this to be a sermon but there are laws
we have been given that cannot be broken. These are the laws that God has given
to us and at no time did he mean to have a friendly discussion over whether he
was right or wrong.
I think my
mother's advise is important in these times, "Keep it simple." Say, "Self, what
is important--really important to me?" Most would respond with answers relating
to God, our families, or our country. But how do you spend your time? Did you
pray today? Tell your family you love them? Did you vote when you had the
opportunity? Everything that detracts from what we value subtracts from
life--makes your life more
complicated.
I want you all to
understand that each day I see beauty in all its glory. I see children. I see
their smiles, hear their laughter, feel their innocence. Each day I tell myself
my job is easy. Each day I hold up by hand and tell those near me to save the
world. It sounds incredibly difficult, like bringing peace to the Middle East or
eliminating prejudice. But, the beautiful part of it is that saving the world is
easy. All you have to do is place a smile where there wasn't one, plant hope
where sadness lives, instill confidence where belief has been shaken, wipe a
tear, or pat someone on the back for a job well
done.
We must be careful of how
we walk, for the footsteps we leave behind become the path future generations
tread.
Posted: Thu - February 19, 2004 at 06:00 PM